Its amazing how most of us are so scarred by our traumatic entry into adulthood that we dare not really allow ourselves to remember how we felt back then. People convinced us it was normal to be traumatized and we accepted that. Every day, 9 out of 10 human energy fields I make medicine for, have clear indications of trauma experienced in the pubescent years.

It appears that a majority of all hormonal imbalances that lead to cancers of the reproductive system, wrong body hair patterns, sleep cycle disturbances, clinical depression, skin cell health problems, body image imbalances and body weight imbalances originate in trauma that happened in the years around puberty.

Around puberty - usually between the years 7 to 13/14;
1) We form our idea of how we as adult men or women will be treated in exchange for the duties we discharge and the attitude we have to others
2) We also form an idea of what treatment we will accept in our adult life ahead

If this idea we formed then, was one that made us willing to accept abuse of any kind, or conform to ideals we didn't agree with deep down, our body rebelled right then causing what is called an 'hormonal rebellion'. A hormonal rebellion is the body producing stress hormones to combat what it considers unfair pressure or treatment - even if it isn't actually happening yet. Stress hormones cause rushes of sebum to surface skin cells causing all manner of eruptions there, imbalances in the hormones of the gut causing digestive problems (and weight problems later on), hair, teeth and bone fragility as well.

Hormonal Rebellion also includes the production of huge amounts of the male hormones (like testosterone) as a sort of preventative 'in case I am attacked' but this huge over-production doesn't do anyone - male or female - any good, as the body tends to swing towards the other extreme every now and then to cope. In men this causes emotional volatility, submissiveness and agression in bouts and uncontrollable physical energy in phases. In women it causes over-defensiveness, painful periods and hyper-sensitivy in phases.

If we are still carrying these 'hormonal rebellion' patterns, we can relieve our bodies of the stress by allowing ourselves to unconditionally remember how we felt during those first years as 'men' or 'women'. We need to ask ourselves, "What did I think was expected of me as a woman/man? Is that in keeping with who I want to be as a woman/man? Is that fair to me as a human being?"

We need to accept ourselves and our sex even though we may not have had a role model we follow. We still have our DNA, our own body and feelings to guide us in being natural women and men.

To help realize that we are not alone, here are a few examples of the situations people have healed from to face life as men and women again.

(Note: Names removed, Spelling, Grammar and Punctuation corrected.)

A- Bangalore, India
Female, Age 22
Healed from Cardio Myopathy, Angina Pectoris, Severe Alopecia, Lower leg atrophy (caused by constant confinement to bed), Hadn't ever had a period before age 22

In my family the women were treated very different from the men. My sisters were avoided by the men of the family even our father and brother, when they had their period. I didn't know this because I was a child then but I could feel that something wrong had happened. I knew that if I got older it would happen to me too and it would end my life. I began to hate my mother and sisters because I didn't want to become like them. I now know that I was prepared to even die before going through that terrible experience. Because of falling so ill I was treated like a child long after I was a teenager - my father took me to school and college and hospital. I looked like a boy more than a girl and was proud of it. But my suffering and constant fear of hospitals, needles and medicines made me hate myself at the same time. My body always smelled of strong medicines. All this was happening and I didn't know it. Now I decided to live as God made me. My healing took two years but I am totally different from inside out. My parents love me and my father cried when we got the hospital report without any more complications. I wore salwar kameez instead of pyjamas to my sister's wedding and none of our relatives recognized me. I want to heal more, become a teacher and help girls to grow into women without being afraid.

F, Indiana, USA
Female, Age 28
Healed from: Severe Trauma in the Brain - Pituitary dysfunction, ADD, Hormonal Imbalance

My father had a roving eye for every female that walked by. I guess I didn't want to be leched at like that. So I hid myself and hoped to be as male as possible, win his respect I guess. I never complained about any of those 'girly' things, was always there for others when they needed me. I looked to myself like an animal in the mirror - not a woman - but I kept with that, felt safer that way. Hurt me more than I knew.

M, Hot Springs, USA
Male, Age 44
Healed from; Fluid Retention (full body), Muscular weakness - back and legs, Depression, Bipolar Affective Syndrome, Kidney weakness, Damage to lungs caused by Smoking, Asthma

I didn't have my Dad around growing up, or an uncle or any male worth respecting or looking up to. The Presidents were all I had and they didn't set very good examples either. I formed my opinion of men as 'scourges on the face of the earth' who made women pregnant and disappeared only to appear drunk one day, try to get laid and disappear again. When I became a teen my own mother started looking at me with suspiscion. It was always 'Don't be like that man' or 'Try to be better than that man' and it was hell. I couldn't down a glass of punch without feeling guilty for not sipping it like the girls did. Strangely I had no clue about what was going on on the inside, fell in love, got married, got divorced (miserable sex life) and then fell too out of shape and low on self-worth to consider myself worth dating. Took all that for me to find out what I'd been through. I work as a counsellor now, for boys. I tell them 'Don't wait to yell or punch or scream. Just do it where no one gets hurt and forget about it.'

T, Aspen, Canada
Female, Age 19
Healed from Partial Paralysis, Severe Period Pain, Hormonal Imbalance

I used to play with my brothers till I started developing breasts. I was only 11 then but I was teased mercilessly about it. I was left out after that, had to go out cycling or skating on my own. I am quite attractive and have had a string of boyfriends - all traumatic experiences - the wrong people for me. I guess I felt like I had to prove something about myself to others, like being me isn't good enough without any added perks. I've changed since I started healing emotionally. I have this sort of peace about me and being woman that I've never had. My Mom always had a string of lovers to prove her worth maybe I got that from her for a while.

T, New York, USA
Female, Age 33
Healed from; PCOS (Poly cystic Ovarian Syndrome), Lymphatic Cancer, Severe Pigmentation on Face, Weight Imbalance

I grew up with no role models male or female that I could trust or talk to. I was played by my parents against each other, then my siblings. I had no life or being outside of bringing the cash in on time and keeping the place tidy so everyone else could go on with their social lives. I was supposed to be fat, ugly and 'not the loving type'. They was all wrong. I was just suppressed and didn't know it. I woke up one day and said enough is enough and I walked out and got me a life. I was down with various sicknesses but I kept going because I knew I was going to find out what was causing them and fix them. I prayed to the Lord and he kept me going.

He sent me a man who is worth respecting and who loves me for me. They said I couldn't have no child because I'm too fat and had cancer but I knew it couldn't be. I took energy medicine and a whole lot of healthy juices and walked miles every day. I dug up my life without shame and I healed. I had my first baby last year and another one is on his way. I have brought two beautiful babies into this world and I am loved. I pray for every woman and every man out there who thinks their ugliness is because that's how it is. There's no one born ugly. We make ourselves ugly because we think that's how it is, that we need to be that way to keep living with our people.

T, Canada
Male, Age 78
Healed from; Retinosis, Eye Muscle Degeneration (slow blinding), Psoric Arthritis of 32 years

I did not think it possible to be healed at my age with the lifestyle I have had. I remember being taught that a man brings in the bread and the woman keeps house. When my wife passed on I could not take care of myself or our home. I nearly smoked myself to death. Our children came over in shifts to help. I began to LOSE VISION and waited every day to DIE. I was trained to bring the money in and leave the rest to my woman. I was taught not to ever enjoy anything, JUST DO MY DUTY. Its what a REAL MAN was according to my father. My marriage drained me even though I loved my wife and she loved me.
Your medicine got me undoing these ideas I have accumulated. They date back to my early teenage years. I now manage the chores and have two cats for company. I enjoy my LIFE. My eyes have stopped going bad, I have no pain from the arthritis and don't care for painkillers or sleep medication. I go on long walks and watch the TREES and SQUIRRELS. My children find me inspiring. I used to make them GUILTY for leaving old Dad all alone back home. Now they love coming back home. I have HOT CHOCOLATE ready for them, just like their Mother used to. Life is moving again here. I have CABLE TV now and watch travel shows that take me to beautiful places without the worry of travel and money. I don't know why I learnt SO LATE that a man has the right to enjoy life, I wish I had learned before. I'm making it up to MY WIFE now, she is with me on my journey of LIFE.

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