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EMOTIONS AND CANCER
This article is divided into the following sections;
How mismanagement of emotions causes cancer
How cancer spreads fuelled by emotions
How to stop the spread of cancer
How to heal from cancer by changing the way you deal with your emotions
Rumors and Truth
How mismanagement of emotions causes cancer:
A few years into learning about how emotions affect the human body, I had compiled a database with information on which emotion affects which part of the body. I was sure that any illness could be treated by focusing on the emotion my database said was related to that part of the body. This whole thing went out of the window though when I started noticing and recording actual case histories. One person's appendix problem was related to anger - another's was related to feelings of failure and so on. Completely confused, I was forced to unlearn all my "learning". That's when my teacher showed me the simple truth I was looking for.
You cannot say this emotion causes this disorder - emotions are as myriad as the universe and every person puts a new spin on every feeling. The only thing that is common to people who fall seriously ill - is the mismanagement of emotions. The way people experience one type of illness tends to be common to most of them (not all - and children are an exception).
In the case of cancer, it's rather simple. After years of struggling with emotions - a person chooses to make a pact - sign a deal - with failure. The deal says, "I won't dismiss you but I won't face you either - Just stay there until I'm done with my more important work and then I'll meet you." This "delaying" of facing emotions has dire consequences.
This means the person goes about everyday life as usual keeping a certain bunch of emotional experiences "at hand" but never gets down to dealing with them. These need not be negative experiences - they can also be great joy, great love - but these are always very consequential significant emotions even though they might not figure high on the person's mental "priorities list".
Because the "deal" still holds the body waits and waits. The thing is, emotions are like a bank loan. As long as you haven't paid it back, interest is surely accumulating on your loan account. The same thing applies to emotions - both joyful and sad. They grow heavier and heavier in your energy field - applying subtle pressure on your body - which one day gives in.
My teacher who is a football fan, has a saying about this. He says, "The longest time you're allowed to delay facing your emotions is until the game is over."
A common theme that comes up again and again in people wanting to heal from cancer is 'Justice'. The dominant feeling lying beneath everyday life seems to be a feeling of having been forced to accept an injustice - something that could not be spoken against and yet was so wrong and unacceptable to the spirit. The person feels "I'm scared to face this matter - because I cannot do anything about it."
Now it's not always practical or possible for people to go back and fight something that happened years ago. But most of us find we can move on with life only after we at least acknowledge to our own hearts consciously that what happened was an injustice. Some times we experienced the injustice - sometimes we did the injustice.
Injustice need not always be an actual happening. Injustice also happens when we fail to acknowledge love. Many heal from simply letting themselves remember that stranger they loved for no reason once upon a time - or the unwanted person who loved them from a distance. Many heal from letting themselves remember the simple faith they had in angels when they were a little child. Just do justice to yourself - and to those whose paths have crossed yours for better or worse. Just acknowledge what happened as your heart feels it - forget the logic.
The development of cancer only happens after you have been in the habit of "delaying" emotions for years and years. Chances are you're a very sensitive person who has been forced to not be so sensitive because you have so many responsibilities and things that have to be done - and so many people to keep happy with your strength and support.
You need to get back into the habit of facing emotions at least the same day as you experience them - if not on the spot.
How cancer spreads fuelled by emotions:
There's this theory that once you have malignant cancer there's no going back on it - that it WILL spread. The fact however is that there is no saying how when or where cancer spreads - if it does. The toxicity that is commonly called "cancer" depends on a weak immune system, and cells that are already unhealthy and open to capture. Strengthen the immune system, refresh every cell and the cancer cannot spread.
Now since we're talking about emotions, and how emotions can make cancer spread, its very simple - when you get a shock - and very few people don't get shocked by a cancer diagnosis - your immune system immediately becomes weak in response - this gives the cancer a great opening to spread.
The first thing to do is get your facts straight: No illness is terminal. When your doctor says something is "terminal" or "last stage", he means it is terminal and last stage as far the current allopathy medical system he/she is trained in goes. Ask him or her about their actual human experience and she'll tell you she's known people who recovered from cancer fully anyway. If you choose to close your eyes to the many treatment options available today, and implicitly believe one system of healthcare, you are in fact bartering your life and your health for an already fading ideology. You have options - don't form an opinion until you have tried them - don't give up on life. Chances are you're a survivor and you didn't get here to give up now. Refuse to give up. Just refuse - it's your right as a human being.
How to stop the spread of cancer
Instead of aiding the cancer in spreading by panicking; start aiding the healthy cells in your body in reproducing. That way they'll fight the spread of cancer and eventually even throw the old cancer cells out! It's so simple, you just have to start doing things that make you happy. You see cells become unhealthy when they are bored. If you've been spending years doing things you don't want to, feeling forced to toe the line… why would your cells want to be awake and functioning? They are part of You - and they get bored and become couch potatoes themselves - just managing to get through their most vital functions. You fire them up by getting interested in life - by enjoying things.
It's different for everyone - you know what makes you happy - get to it like its war now. Take revenge for every boring staid moment of your life - live it up for once. The fun bit is, now you have a piece of paper that says you have "cancer" all the people around you are going to want you to have fun. Enjoy it!
How to heal from cancer by changing the way you deal with your emotions:
People very often say "How could you tell me to deal with my emotions when I have a cancer diagnosis here? Do you know what this means for me? For my family? For my children? This is IT for me… and you want me to bother about emotions???"
The truth of the matter is, the average person who has just found out she/he has cancer thinks about everyone and everything but their own selves - it is world-over the attitude most common in cancer patients. What will my children do - they're not even in college yet? How will my husband/wife manage my treatment? Things like this. The funny bit is, it also turns out that these worries aren't new to the person - they've already spent a few years on these same issues - the cancer diagnosis just brought them out in the open and validated them like nothing before.
This is a great chance to change your attitude to your self. The pros and cons are too lengthy to list, a simple good old saying should do:
You cannot make anyone happy, until you are happy yourself.
You cannot do good to anyone till you have cared for yourself first. You have to change radically attitudes that make you devalue yourself, neglect yourself, suppress your feelings and opinions. YOU SIMPLY HAVE TO NOW. You're going to do no good to yourself or others by putting yourself and your true feelings, memories, wishes, dreams into a box to deal with after retirement or some such day when you have no one else's work to do.
You're a wonderful person, one of those people Humanity needs to stay around for as long as possible. Your caring nature - people dream of having a friend like you, a mom like you, a dad like you, a love like you, a daughter like you, a son like you…. Just because no one says it much doesn't mean this isn't true and you know it. The only person who has a bone to pick with you - is your own Spirit - God. You haven't been caring and honoring yourself as befits the glorious creation of God. You've gotten the message now - Get to it.
1) List the things you've always loved doing but couldn't make time or money for. Things you enjoyed during your childhood.
2) Do them.
3) Tell everyone around to start doing what makes them happy (without keeping the neighbors awake or landing up in jail). Happiness is infectious - they'll heal you - you'll heal and insulate them. Take out a household ban on Grumpy Faces. You either do something about a problem or forget it and smile. Grumpy Faces NOT ALLOWED.
God took a big risk by letting you get cancer. Don't let God down by not using this reminder from the Spirit to start really living again. You are your life are precious to every other being in the universe - you are a vital link in the chain of life. By refusing to give up, by loving yourself back into health, you are affirming all life and blessing each one of us. This is the truth no matter how chick-flickish it sounds.
Rumors and Truth
Rumor
You cannot recover from cancer if it is in the advanced stages.
Truth
There are many who have recovered from cancer even in the advanced stages. It just hasn't become well known because the media and medical establishment in general would rather not give people the idea they can slack off on radio or chemotherapies - or spend lesser time in hospital.
There are very many options - most of which work just as well in combination with the usual medical treatments as when taken separately. Most of all, the power of your will to live - You can choose what happens to you - Morale is Power - and many have used it to heal completely from just about anything.
Rumor
A cancer diagnosis means a complete end of life as I know it. It means trips to hospitals, terrible hair loss and a weak body. Etc etc.
Truth
How you deal with a cancer diagnosis is your choice. In most cases a person is able in every way to go about normal every day life. You have to make intelligent choices about your treatment options (medical/alternative/holistic) and know it's your right as a human being to get people to support you in maintaining a normal routine.
Rumor
Having cancer means a stop or slow-down in my career. A person with cancer cannot function the same as before.
Truth
This again is not a rule. Most often, when co-workers know someone has cancer they expect the person to stop working well. And somehow the consciousness of illness takes over and even little things become difficult to do. The fact is, there might be one or two things - physically strenuous work perhaps - that are difficult to do well, but that's it. Does someone's brain stop working because they have a cold? Or liver damage? Why cancer? The fact is, the impact that cancer has on a person's life can sometimes result in them seeing life differently and releasing a whole wave of creativity never seen before!
It can also cause a wonderful comradie in the work-place - something all the MBA strategies couldn't accomplish before - resulting in an increase in overall productivity. A company can only gain by supporting their employees through cancer.
Rumor
Negative emotions cause cancer.
Truth
From birth to death we all experience negative emotions just as much as we experience positive emotions. In fact who is to say which emotions are negative and which are positive? Some 'negative' emotions lead to the greatest changes for the better in our lives - some 'positive' emotions can lead us to apathy, laziness and downfall. What causes cancer is years of not managing emotions in the natural, free way we did when we were kids - before we learned to suppress our feelings and pretend. It's true we cannot go fight it out with the neighbor like we would have done at Age 5, but we can at least acknowledge without judging ourselves that we are very angry. We have to get back to being real with ourselves, listening to our heart and gut feelings, instead of thinking we are basically flowing over with sinful negative inclinations that have to be controlled- that's not true - its just what fuels the economy best these days.
Rumor
Cancer speeds up the ageing process.
Truth
The "ageing process" is based on the degeneration of body tissues caused by cell weakness. This can be caused by anything at all - from staying indoors too much to pollution to over-exertion! The less vitality your cells are functioning with, the slacker body tissues get, the less energy the hormonal system receives. The more vitality the cells of your body have the stronger your entire system will be - then, only your mental idea of how you 'should be looking at your age' dictates how you look.
Rumor
Cancer lessens sexual function.
Truth
Unless the actual sexual organs are in pain, there need be no lessening of sexual function. What usually happens though is that people assume that if they have cancer there's got to be some effect on their libido and sexuality. The opposite is more true! In response to an illness like cancer - the body (and psyche) would naturally rally all the adrenalin and energy possible to get back into "life mode" and sex is one of the best expressions of "life mode". A cancer patient would do well to use every opportunity of life expression possible - especially sex in a loving trust based situation. You know , laughter is not really the best medicine - making love is.
Rumor
I have gotten cancer because of some sin / karmic debt I have to pay for.
Truth
There's this old latin saying which transalates to something like: This is happened after that. Therefore this happened because of that.
If we took this to be true, we'd assume everyone child suffering is a dark dirty sinner underneath. We'd think every person living it up was a life-saver before. The fact is, life is not that simple - or cruel. It's true we cannot get away with intentionally hurting others really - but no one really knows why exactly some things happen. Many people will tell you that some of their difficult times were life-changing in a most wonderful way - that they later found out they were being protected or blessed instead of being punished. You've got to give yourself and the Universe the benefit of doubt.
And remember that no matter what the theories about sin and karma and all that are, the real universal fact is that you are a beautiful human being created to have within you every aspect of the Creator - the greatest love possible. You can never be damned. Never never never ever ever ever.
Damnation only happens to yesterday's newpapers - You are still here - your every chance at life and love and joy are still Here, Now. Rise up to yourself.
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